by Gordon Parry | Nov 4, 2025 | Positive Psychology, Possibilities
Positive psychology is often misunderstood as a “feel-good” project centered on happiness and optimism. While this misconception is easy to repeat, it is far from reality. The field is deeply rooted in ancient philosophical traditions, grounded in rigorous science,...
by Gordon Parry | Oct 30, 2025 | Choices, Gratitude, Hope, Joy, Noticing, Possibilities
There was a time, not so long ago, when I found myself standing at the edge of cynicism. I was not only standing but also moving toward it. After decades of leading, teaching, and believing in human potential, I had lost touch with the very qualities that once...
by Gordon Parry | Oct 20, 2025 | Compassion, Empathy, Joy, Renewal
Last week I wrote about walking with our elders, about listening instead of leading. That same posture of humility, patience, and attention is also the soil in which joy grows. As C. S. Lewis wrote, “Joy is the serious business of heaven.” It is not a feeling that...
by Gordon Parry | Oct 8, 2025 | Aging, Elders, Family, Hope, Multiple Generations, Possibilities
In the final months of my father’s life, every moment felt like a lesson in presence, humility, and listening. As I walked alongside him, I entered a new kind of terrain. It wasn’t about taking control or reversing roles. It was about honoring his autonomy, wisdom,...
by Gordon Parry | Oct 2, 2025 | Abundance, Aging, Gratitude, Noticing, Possibilities
This past weekend, I tried out the advice of two voices in human flourishing, Arthur Brooks and Ellen Langer. Their message is simple but powerful: if we want to rediscover joy, counter negativity, and unlock our potential at any stage of life, we need to train our...
